Five Tips for Decision-Making

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It’s easy when faced with a decision to get caught up in a circular conversation of “should I” or “shouldn’t I”. The problem with waffling on decisions is that usually whatever the problem is, it gets worse, or the opportunity passes you by. Most of the decisions you make are not life-altering. Think of them as a chance to test a theory or try something new or create a learning experience. The more confident you become with decision making on the small stuff, the easier it will be when you are faced with a huge choice.

Try these five tips when making a decision:

1. Be honest.

Before you jump into the decision-making process ask yourself: Am I willing to live with the status quo without whining and complaining? If the answer is yes, then there’s really no decision to make. If the answer is no, then it’s time to consider your options.

2. List your options.

Most people can easily identify option A and option B. What you might overlook is option C, or even D. When listing your options, stretch yourself beyond the simple 2 solution answer. There could be a completely different and better fitting option you haven’t considered. If you get stuck, ask other people for suggestions. Often people most removed from a situation can see alternate options more clearly.

3. Consider the pros and cons.

Make a list of all the advantages and disadvantages of each option. Then give yourself a time limit for weighing them. If you’re faced with a major decision, of course you don’t want to rush things. Some people though can stall at this part of the decision making process. Instead of getting stuck at this point, ask for input from someone you trust. Tap into your gut instinct about the best choice. Think about the worst case scenario of each option and ask yourself if you can live with that result.

4. Decide whose decision it is.

Sometimes your higher self calls you to make a decision. Sometimes the push is coming from someone else. Sometimes it’s being directed by your committee of inner critics. Ask yourself: What’s the most important motive for making this decision? Does your answer reflect your core values? Choices that are rooted in your values and priorities are the easiest ones to sustain.

5. Reflect on the learning.

Decision-making has the potential for a lot of learning. Pay attention to the conversation you are having with yourself as you make the decision. Are you supportive and encouraging or do you criticize yourself? Once a decision is made, stop and reflect. No matter the outcome, lock in the learning for the future. If it didn’t go the way you wanted, what would you do differently next time? If it did turn out well, what do you need to remember when faced with a similar decision.

Laurel Vespi, certified life coach, award winning author and chief executive guru of stone circle coaching, ignites businesses & individuals to new levels of CHANGE. Laurel works with clients internationally, providing unconventional yet practical tips that make the seemingly impossible... possible! Sign up for Laurel's free ezine and get a free guidebook to blissful living at www.stonecirclecoaching.com